8 Responses

1. Just Call Me G

   12|Jul|2010 1

   On top of his cross-dressing fetish, he may have a “baby fetish”. Meaning he feels more comfortable acting like a child than acting like an adult. Its actually more common of a fetish than most people realize. Since he’s commenting on dresses and toys and not actual little girls, I’d assume this is the case for him. If its not something you’re comfortable with though, then don’t hang around.
   Tell your friend that you respect the fact that everyone has their own ways of going about things, but this specific situation just doesn’t settle well with you and you don’t feel comfortable hanging out at the house while he’s there. As a great friend, she should respect and understand that. She can still come to your house and hang out as often as she wants or you can meet at mutual spots….. just not her house while he’s home. No harm, no foul. I know that I wouldn’t feel comfortable with it if I was in your position.

2. ruby

   12|Jul|2010 2

   Stop trying to be so politicly correct. Your gut is telling you something isn’t right and you need to listen to it.

3. ˚haяd çaηdy˚

   13|Jul|2010 3

   When I have a bad feeling about someone, I go with my gut, mothers have instincts for a reason, don’t ignore them!

4. Dylan, Ethan & Lillian's Mom

   13|Jul|2010 4

   I would not let my children around him either..I am sorry but he sounds really creepy..my kids are my #1 concern so I would not care what anyone thinks..follow your gut feelings on this one..

5. Always Honest :)

   13|Jul|2010 5

   I avoid people I feel weird about

6. Best Massage Chairs

   13|Jul|2010 6

   Having a gay person around your kids is perfectly fine in my book. The cross-dressing-rocking-horse-riding guy sounds like a nut job and if you visit your friend, keep your daughter with you and don’t let her out of your sight! The guy sounds REALLY disturbed. Who knows, maybe he’s really nice and was sexually abused, but then again I don’t know any adults that ride rocking horses….

7. happymom

   13|Jul|2010 7

   Please, trust your gut instincts here. If some feeling you have is telling you that this isn’t feeling right then don’t ignore it. Generally, valid feelings will come before you have a reason which is a source of protection. You may find the reason later.
   Just tell your friend you think he’s a nice guy and your sure everything is fine but, that your mom radar is telling you that he might not be completely stable, and you’d be more comfortable being closer to her and a little more distant to him. If she’s a good friend, she’ll understand or learn to get over it if she doesn’t. Some things aren’t worth risking. Good luck.

8. ♥ Oh My Gosh ♥

   13|Jul|2010 8

   It sounds like he has some mental health problems/a learning disability. Perhaps he is Autistic. Without knowing what (if anything) is actually wrong with him, I think ou should avoid singling him out. Perhaps get to know him a bit better first. You don’t necessarily ave to drag your daughter along every-time you go over there. When you do bring her, just supervise her.